Georgia Fiero Club Forum
General Discussion and Announcements => General Discussion => Topic started by: Fierofool on August 09, 2016, 11:20:39 pm
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Forty seven years ago today, August 9, 1969, I made the best decision of my life and set off in a new direction. It was the best choice I've ever made.
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Ok. I'll play. Was it such a good decision that you did it a second time?
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Actually, I did marry her a second time. August 9, 1969 and October 6, 1977.
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This is just for fun, but I may have you there. I married her 3 times, around the world.
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Didn't know she was married to you, too. Thought she was all mine. That must have been where she disappeared while we were in St. Ann.
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LOL. No, different woman. You had a greater span between times than I did. How (dates) do you observe your anniversary/ies?
I guess the only way mine could've been cooler would have been if we were on the space station at the time.
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We observe both. August 9 being the main one.
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Ours are observed in their respective time zones.
So, now that we have that settled, why 47 years, rather than 50? Or do you post this thread annually?
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That day, I wasn't sure there would be 48. I admitted her to the hospital on the 8th with a possible life-threatening infection. Long story, but 10 years ago, they only gave her 6 months.
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I was afraid of that sort of answer. I hope there are many past 50 to celebrate.
Doctors can be wrong.
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I was afraid of that sort of answer. I hope there are many past 50 to celebrate.
Doctors can be wrong.
A correct diagnosis and specialty medication has kept her here. It's progressive, though.
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I'm sorry to hear that. My boss' wife has something similar. It slowly cuts off blood flow to the brain
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Since I recently passed one of my anniversaries, I thought of you guys. How is Melanie doing?
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She had a very rough time breathing during our rainy days a week or so ago, and the low pressure system associated with it caused a lot of rheumatoid pain in her back. As soon as the weather started to clear, her breathing problems and pain diminished. At the moment, she's doing very well, all things considered.
Thank you for your concerns and for asking.
Happy Anniversary (belated)
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Thanks.
I'm glad she is doing better. Is Spring hard on her? I hope not. It's my favorite time of year. Some people have a lot of difficulty breathing in the Spring, due to all the allergens and things.
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Just about anything other than low to mid 70's with low humidity is tough on her.
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I guess she wouldn't like it at my house. Temp is 78 degrees.
At least restaurant temps are usually that cool, but the humidity is often higher. I don't remember much of the climate there, but I thought it was warm and humid.
Does Melanie still turn out for RFTH and picnics?
Just today, someone was telling us about a wedding reception he attended, where the couples dance until their anniversary number is called, until only one couple is left. The MC asked them the secret to so many years of marriage. The answer? Live that long.
Some day, I'd like to make it down there, so hang in there.
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She's pretty much housebound. The oxygen tank required for her to go anywhere just does fit into the top level of the Fiero trunk and a line has to be run to the front. That tank will only last about 5 hours, then there's the two small tanks on her cart that must be put up in front with her so she can have oxygen when she gets out of the car.
My truck is well suited to transport everything with a cradle under the rear cover for the big tank, a space under the back seat for 4 mobility tanks that will give her about 4 hours per pair using the pulse conserver regulators, so theoretically, we could be away for maybe 18 hours, round trip in the truck.
She sometimes comes to meetings, and the last few picnics were held at Redraif's home so she could get inside if needed. Most sat on the screened porch out of the sun. She couldn't do that, now.
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Do you alternate with other people for her care? Do people come visit for a change of scenery? You make me think of a book I read long ago. Probably Heidi. They brought up a fan, pine needles, and ice to bring her the scent of the mountain.
Doesn't she (please forgive my use of a pronoun to avoid repeating her name, I don't mean to objectify) get tired of being a captive of the house? I think it's called stir crazy.
I've often pondered our thin thread of human existence. I lost a friend who was on his way to his wedding reception, when hit by a driver who had fallen asleep at the wheel. Another friend who was in the special forces survived years of the worst, came home, was in an accident, and didn't wake up, a few weeks later. A nephew just didn't wake up. A girl I knew years ago died in terrible circumstances while we were dancing. A bunch of guys in my group were subjected to intense gunfire. 3 survived. A grenade in the mess hall took out several men, and sent many to the hospital. No warning. A bomb in the barracks killed one man, mainly because the barracks were empty at the time. A minute or so previously, it would have been me. Even tornados pick and choose.
Just to relieve the monotony of being at home, I'd solicit people around the world to send a pic and a story.
Can she still sit and read?
Please don't take any of this as negative. Melanie is at a different point in her life than I am. While I can and have stayed inside for days, the thought of having to stay indoors fills me with dread. Of course, you have grandkids, so seeing them must give her some joy.
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She has her laptop, facebook and pinterest. Hundreds of friends. She does genealogy research on our families and has traced her ancestry back prior to 1000AD and mine back through about 8 Great Grandfathers on my Father's side. She knows that she's a Heinz (variety, that is) Swede, Italian, French, German, English, and Mick Mack Indian. She occasionally does genealogy for other people, too. She wants to do as much in the house as possible until she asks for help.
Visitors are usually members from our Sunday School class and we go out once a month for lunch with a group of my past political supporters and colleagues. We occasionally grocery shop together and sometimes go to lunch with some of my high school classmates. Doctors visits are a regular outing, most of them some 35 miles away. Those trips also include a lunch at a New York Deli for a Pastrami on rye sandwich. She doesn't dwell on the illness or the limitations. That's what prevents her from becoming stir-crazy. No outdoor activities.
The granddaughter is here at least 3 days a week from 3:30 to 9PM and brings her and me a lot of happiness and reason for being here.
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Hundreds of friends.
She doesn't dwell on the illness or the limitations.
The granddaughter is here at least 3 days a week from 3:30 to 9PM and brings her and me a lot of happiness and reason for being here.
Those are the best parts.
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That day, I wasn't sure there would be 48. I admitted her to the hospital on the 8th with a possible life-threatening infection. Long story, but 10 years ago, they only gave her 6 months.
Sorry. I meant to follow up on this. Happy VERY BELATED Anniversary! Right between August and October. I remembered last month, but even a bit ago thought it was this month. You made 48.
I was going to wait until late in the day, then make a comment that I'd guarantee you would make 48. Oh, well, my road was paved with good intentions.
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Thank you. We're trying fot fifty, too (two).
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Go for it! A couple at church has been married for 78 years. Just giving you a goal to shoot for.
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So I don't forget, later. I saw this thread today, and for some reason thought of this poem. Who knows? Maybe you needed some special thoughts.
The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
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Who pays for the wedding? My boss' daughter is getting married, and their expected costs are about $30K, which my boss is paying.
My host student is getting married. $30K seems like a lot. All three of mine, combined, with halls, 5 caterers, live bands, DJ, choir, organist, cultural dancers, flowers, cakes, drinks, buffalo, limos, photographer, videographers, gong players, 2 sets of wedding outfits for the wedding party (including hand-made dresses for the bridesmaids and a custom dress for the bride), airfare, license, hotels/resorts, church rental, hir dresser/makeup, etc was probably that. Most people don't have 3 weddings, 500 people, a carriage ride, airfare, cultural dancers, gong players, a full choir, buffalo, or multiple live bands. My parents paid for the rehearsal dinner, a celebratory meal for the 4 of us, and their own airfare/hotels. My wife's parents provided labor for setting everything up.
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This is weird but funny