Post by: Fierofool on March 27, 2018, 06:54:31 pm
We have enjoyed almost 49 years together as husband and wife, but most of all, I treasure the last 12 years. That is because, in January 2006, we were told she only had 6 months to live. I hoped they were wrong. She proved they were wrong.
With Strength, Faith and Resolve, she fought. She didn't complain. She never thought of herself as sick. She was always more concerned with my health and the well-being of our family, putting her own frailties and needs out of mind. She continued to do as much within the household as possible. It was her desire. She had said that if she ever sat down and quit trying, she was doomed.
In the last week, she needed full assistance and support to move around the house, due to having slipped off the bed, breaking her foot and nose. She could only walk using a cane and household items or my hand for support, but yesterday morning, she grabbed her oxygen cart and her cane and began moving about the house.
I know she was in pain and struggling, but her Faith gave her strength. Her Faith gave me strength and led me to Christ. Now, she is with Him as her reward.
Funeral arrangements by:
Tim Stewart Funeral Home
300 Simonton Rd SW,
Lawrenceville, GA 30046
Viewing Friday, March 30, 5 PM to 8 PM
Services:
Sharon Baptist Church
1059 Dee Kennedy Rd,
Auburn, GA 30011
March 31, 1 PM
Internment:
White Chapel Memorial Gardens
1832 Pleasant Hill Rd,
Duluth, GA 30096
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 27, 2018, 07:02:19 pm
Post by: pgackerman on March 27, 2018, 07:12:46 pm
Prayers and thoughts with you and her.
Do you need anything?
Post by: scottb on March 27, 2018, 08:04:19 pm
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 27, 2018, 08:24:36 pm
Post by: GrannyLinda on March 27, 2018, 08:36:36 pm
Post by: Tha Driver on March 27, 2018, 08:51:09 pm
Peace be with you, Charlie.
Post by: Sarge on March 27, 2018, 08:59:10 pm
David
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 27, 2018, 08:59:57 pm
Post by: Raydar on March 27, 2018, 09:12:21 pm
I've been following Melissa's posts on FB. Please give her a hug for me.
Post by: Fierofool on March 27, 2018, 09:13:29 pm
Do You Need Pall Bearers ?
Yes. I have 3 so far.
Post by: MikeMac on March 27, 2018, 09:25:03 pm
Mel was blessed that she had you to stand by her side through every moment of her illness. You are an example to all of us.
My condolences.
Post by: TopNotch on March 27, 2018, 09:43:22 pm
I would be honored to serve as a pall bearer.
Post by: oldone on March 27, 2018, 11:42:51 pm
Post by: HarryT on March 28, 2018, 01:40:46 am
You and your family are in our thoughts and we send our heartfelt sympathy to all of you.
We are so sorry for your loss;
Harry and Karin
Post by: f85gtron on March 28, 2018, 06:58:21 am
I'm sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.
Ron
Post by: Slyp on March 28, 2018, 01:41:41 pm
I am very sorry to hear about Melanie. I had met her several time at the lunchs. Rosalee and myself are praying for you and youir family.
Bob
Post by: Fierofool on March 28, 2018, 11:00:05 pm
Thank you all for your prayers, thoughts and love for her.
Post by: GTXVette on March 29, 2018, 08:19:09 am
I would be Sure God's Plan Includes Happiness In your Future.
Call On me as A Brother If you need me.
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 29, 2018, 07:21:44 pm
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 29, 2018, 09:49:05 pm
| My Melanie Guide. Friend. Companion. Wife. Mother. Many the words to describe her. Faith. Strength. Fortitude. Forbearance. Many the attributes she possesses. Many the smiles on others bestow; Many the endearments by which is known. The meaning of time is made clear; As we get old, becomes more dear. She bid her friends a long farewell 'Till at last answered God's bell. Her pain ended; she has left this space. Her soul awaits in a better place. In Holy Week, her last Earthly breath did take; Now among the angels, in Heaven to partake. So many lives touched from the start Gotta love her, so much heart. Friends last a lifetime; Love lasts an enernity. She. My. Melanie. |  I think this is how I'll remember her. |
Post by: fiero128 on March 30, 2018, 06:13:17 am
from Both Julie and Allen here in Western Sydney Australia
julie and myself both know her spirit will be with you for the rest if your life.
This a shock to both of us
we both are speechless
So sorry to hear of her passing
Rest in piece melanie
Post by: GTRS Fiero on March 31, 2018, 04:58:45 pm
Post by: Fierofool on April 03, 2018, 02:43:53 pm
The Fiero Community, in my opinion, isn't just about our little plastic fire trap cars. It seems to attract a special kind of caring and loving people. I am truly blessed that I know so many of them.
A more personal thank you will be forthcoming.
Post by: Fierofool on April 29, 2018, 04:58:03 pm
The time is 7PM
The place is Monterrey Mexican Restaurant
5745 Old Winder Hwy, (Hwy 211)
Suite A, Braselton, GA 30517-1636
Chateau Elan/Winder exit 126.
If Northbound on I-85, turn left at end of exit. The restaurant is on the right just past the 4th traffic light which is at Friendship Road. If Southbound on I-85, deduct 1 traffic light.
All are invited to attend.
Post by: GTRS Fiero on May 02, 2018, 10:04:39 pm
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Don't leave good things to special days to use!! Life is really fragile, & life & death are bound to fail. Even Apple's Steve Jobs was powerless in the face of illness!
Many years ago, one of my classmates, his wife just passed away. He told me: "When I was going through my wife's relics, I found a silk scarf that was bought in a branded name shop when we were traveling to New York. It was an elegant & beautiful designer scarf. The high price tag was still on the top. His wife had been reluctant to use it. She wanted to wait for a special day."
Speaking of this, he stopped & I didn't answer. After a while, he continued: "Never again use good things for special days. Every day you live is a special day."
Later, whenever I think of these words, I often put down the chore in my hand, find a novel, turn on the sound, lay on the couch, & grab some of my own time.
I would admire the scenery of the Tamsui River from the floor-to-ceiling windows, & would not take care of the dust on the glass.
I would take my family out to eat. Life should be an experience we cherish, not a day of hard work.
I shared this conversation with a woman. Later, when she met me, she told me that she did not put beautiful porcelain utensils in the wine cabinet as she did before.
In the past, she also thought that she would leave it for special days until she found out that day had never arrived.
"Future" & "sometimes" no longer exist in her dictionary. If there is anything to be pleased with, she will hear it now & she will see it.
We often want to get together with old friends, but always say "find opportunity".
We often want to embrace children who have grown up, but always wait for the right time.
We often want to write to the other half to express a strong affection, or want him /her to know that you admire him/ her, but you always tell yourself not to be anxious & then forget about it.
In fact, every morning when we open our eyes, we must tell ourselves that this is a special day. Every day, every minute is so valuable.
[1] Don't always work under pressure, & tire yourself!
[2] Do not forget that the body is everything. No health, cannot enjoy all the fun of life.
[3] Do not think that it is the doctor who can save lives. It is actually your own & health is more important than life-saving.
[4] Don't think that there is a reward for paying, & all things can only be rewarded if you don't account for returns.
[5] Do not ignore those who are with you, & wait for the pros & cons.
Let it go! Enjoy life slowly & enjoy every day of your life!
After reading this essay, share with your family & friends! You may change many people!
*Thank you, it's good to have you!*
Post by: Fierofool on May 03, 2018, 03:11:02 pm
Post by: GTRS Fiero on May 03, 2018, 06:21:27 pm
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Post by: Drewbdo on May 08, 2018, 01:02:53 pm
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. :'(
I'm sure you and your daughter will have many special memories to look back on in the days ahead. I'll be praying for you during this time.
Post by: Fierofool on May 14, 2018, 10:04:12 am
Post by: GTRS Fiero on May 14, 2018, 06:50:55 pm
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Post by: GTRS Fiero on May 14, 2018, 07:10:57 pm
The dog kills the squirrels and the rabbits. And the moles.
Post by: Fierofool on May 14, 2018, 07:58:10 pm
Then I caught a squirrel sitting in the feeder again and couldn't figure how he managed to get up the pole. When I went out to shoo him away, I noticed his little black footprints. You see, inside that bunch of lilies is a big flower pot about 2 1/12 feet high. It is the origin of all these lilies, having had just 1 planted in it from a potted plant from a funeral.
Anyway, there were little black footprints all over the lip of that flower pot. The squirrel found that he couldn't climb the greased pole, so he got on the flower pot and jumped. But we don't have problems with squirrels anymore since a black Tom Cat took up with Ray. He hides in the lilies or irises or daffodils, whichever is in season and waits for the squirrels to come to him. Once the flowers are gone, he hides in the fire bushes you see along the left. Sometimes he gets a meal he doesn't have to fight when doves walk in to eat the seeds that fall on the ground.
The feeder was placed there for Melanie to enjoy her beloved Cardinals. Sometimes there would be a dozen or more sitting in the cherry tree, awaiting their turn at the feeder.
Post by: GTRS Fiero on May 14, 2018, 08:39:21 pm
I need one for the front yard.
My flowers are wilting, but the weeds are growing.
Actually, my yard is growing like a chia-pet. I have to mow twice a week.
I don't know what happened the the iris, the hyacinth, the hydrangea, or the dwarf burning bush. The daffodils and tulips are done for the year.
Post by: GTRS Fiero on April 11, 2019, 10:07:27 pm
A wonderful celebration, last night. More than 20 family, friends, Fiero and church people came. I and my daughter thank each and every one of you. We plan on doing this every year, so if you couldn't make it this time, put it in your calendar for May 2, 2019.
Or May 4th.
Post by: Fierofool on April 12, 2019, 08:45:10 am
The Iris's are about to go away and the Lilies are about to come into bloom.