ok so today (thanks to Charlies once again!) I got a mechanical gauge hooked up and found my oil pressure is running at around 15psi hot idle. I plugged in one of his oil pressure senders and the gauge worked so it was obviously the sender that pegged my pressure gauge. Also the original problem hasn't happened again...And to get a new sender (a good american made one) i would need to call sosebee and see if they have one? Or whats stopping me from running a mechanical gauge like i currently have on there to watch my oil pressure?
