Connector D and earth on relay plug gave me 51.22, 43.76, 32.44 ....... Volts.... hmmmmm.
Tried at fuse box with head wedged in footwell....more jibber jabber.
I then got bored of random readings and a general sense of uncomfortableness from the contortions and removed fuse box from its holder...ahh that's better. With my head the right way up and access to the back of the board, I could see one of the fuse pump terminals was loose in the box (is not attached to the plastic). I reattached and tried ignition...still nothing...oh yeah best put relay back in ...and....whirrrrrr. the fuel pump is back. Wooohoooo.
Didn't have time to check if it runs but am sure that's at least diagnosis done.
Now to find a way of holding the terminal in the fuse box. Else every time that fuse is removed it will not be possible to reconnect without removing the fusebox.
Thanks for suggestions.