Well after much trouble shooting, cursing, and two extra cans of r134a due to issues..... The car has working AC. Turns out the really cheap manifold gauge set I had rented from pep boys was finicky. Some trouble shooting secured that the hoses were not actually allowing any flow to and from the car. Got them massaged into working and now the system is fat, happy, and blowing cold air.
Wish I would have scrubbed under the hood and found the sticker so I could have tried just a vac and charge but such is life.
Lots more to do but I can at least now drive in comfort.