Every now and then, my wife imparts her point of view on something, and I thought I'd share this one.
As we were looking at RFTH pictures my wife commented about the shirts. Usually, I purchase a shirt for myself for a Fiero event. At the 35th, my wife was one of the photographers. She wore whatever she wore, but nothing Fiero-related. Last night, she told me that she had felt like a nobody at the 35th, and that people basically ignored her. I felt very badly about this, of course. I did purchase a shirt for her, for the Tyler Shipman show, so she does have that, now.
At the time I purchased the shirts, my thought was that she really did not like being asked about Fieros, and would rather be left alone. Little did I know, being left alone and being ignored are different. No one wants to be ignored. Somewhere along the line, my wife decided to participate. No, not by having her own Fiero, but by being part of the event.
Now, I guess there are several take-aways:
- Apparently, we, as Fiero owners, are not inclusive to other people
- Having an event shirt is a good idea for all attendees