If you can get the studs out of it, a hard sanding block can be used to flatten the surface. It would also show the low spot after a dozen or so passes. Once you have an even finish across the surface, try a new gasket. If it blows, then use some J-B WELD
Series ExtremeHeat, Epoxy Adhesive, Jar, 3.0 oz, Gray, 1 hr Work Life. It has a temp range of 0 to 2400 F. Put a thin film on the manifold, install the EGR base, tighten it down and let it cure.